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T;ksfr"k ,oa oSokfgd thou

yo ijk'kj

ije firk ijekRek us bl fo'o dk fuekZ.k djrs le; bls xq.k ,oa nks"k ;qDr jpkA ijUrq lar:ih gal] nks"k:ih ty dks NksM+dj xq.k:ih nw/k dks gh xzg.k djrs gSaA ;g rHkh lEHko gks ikrk gS tc fo/kkrk bl izdkj dk foosd nsrs gSa vkSj mlh foosd ds lgkjs ekuo bl fo'o ds xq.kksa dks tkudj mudk lnqi;ksx djrk gSA vk/kqfud ;qx esa ekuo] Hkxoku ds bl }U}okn ds dkj.k dbZ ckj nqfo/kkvksa esa f?kj tkrk gS vkSj mlls fudyus dk ekxZ <w<+rk gSA dgrs gSa vko';drk vkfo"dkj dh tuuh gSA lekt esa jgrs gq, ekuo ds dqN eq[; iz'u jgrs gSa] tSls bl /kjk ij vkdj thou fuokZg dSls fd;k tk,\ mlds lkFk&lkFk dqVqEc ds lnL;ksa ds izfr Hkh mldh dqN ftEesnkfj;ka gksrh gSaA mudk fuokZg djuk vR;Ur vko';d gS] ftuesa ,d leL;k cPpksa ds fookg dh jgrh gS] D;ksafd vktdy ds okrkoj.k esa ;ksX; oj&o/kw dk feyuk dfBu izrhr gksrk gSA dbZ ckj oj&o/kw feyus ds i'pkr Hkh fookg&foPNsn gks tkrk gSA bl leL;k ds lek/kku esa T;ksfr"k 'kkL= iw.kZ:is.k leFkZ gSA blh fy, izkphu le; ls egf"kZ;ksa us T;ksfr"k ds ek/;e ls fookg iwoZ dq.Myh feyku bR;kfn dk fu;e cuk;k FkkA mldh vogsyuk djus ds dkj.k vkt ekuo nq[kh gSA T;ksfr"k 'kkL= dk fo"k; lw{e ,oa xgu gSA bldk mís'; u dsoy Hkfo"; dh ?kVukvksa dk fooj.k nsuk gS vfirq mldk ifjp; nsdj mlls ykHk djkuk Hkh gSA ;gh lar }kjk xq.k:ih nw/k dk xzg.k djuk gSA fdlh fo"k; dks tku dj mlls ykHk izkIr djuk gh mldk eq[; mís'; jgrk gSA blh fy, T;ksfr"k 'kkL= D;k gS] mlls oSokfgd leL;k dk funku dSls fd;k tk,] bl ij fopkj djsaA

ftl izdkj vkdk'k esa fLFkr lw;Z dh ÅtkZ dk izHkko ekuo thou ij izR;{k fn[kkbZ nsrk gS vkSj jkf= esa pUæek dh B.Mh fdj.ksa izHkkfor djrh gqbZ izrhr gksrh gSa mlh rjg vkdk'k esa ftrus u{k= vkSj xzgksa ds fcEc ns[kus esa vkrs gSa] mu lHkh dk i`Foh fLFkr thoksa ds Åij D;k&D;k izHkko iM+rk gS] bl fo"k; dks crkus okys foKku dks lkekU;r;k T;ksfr"k foKku dgrs gSaA ekuork ds bfrgkl esa ;g ,d izkphure foKku gSA blesa eq[;r;k 9 xzg] 27 u{k=] 12 jkf'k;ka ,oa 12 Hkkoksa dk o.kZu fgUnw T;ksfr"k esa feyrk gSA lHkh xzg i`Foh ds pkjksa vksj ifjØek djrs gq, izrhr gksrs gSaA blh izdkj lw;Z Hkh iwoZ esa mn;] if'pe esa vLr rFkk i`Foh dh ifjØek djrk gqvk fn[kkbZ nsrk gSA okLro esa i`Foh gh lw;Z dh ifjØek djrk gSA lw;Z dk ;g vkHkklh ifjØek ekxZ] okLro esa tks i`Foh dk lw;Z dh ifjØek dk jkLrk gS] jfo ekxZ dgykrk gS vkSj mlds nksuksa vksj 8-8 va'k dh dqy 16 va'k foLr`r iêh] ftlesa lHkh xzg fLFkr gSa] HkpØ dgykrh gSA fgUnw T;ksfr"k dk ;gh eq[; vk/kkj gSA 16 va'k pkSM+s vkSj 3600 okys bl lw;Z&o`r ekxZ dks 30-30 va'k ds 12 cjkcj dkYifud Hkkxksa esa foHkkftr fd;k tkrk gS] tks fd 12 jkf'k;ka dgykrh gSaA izkjaHk jkf'k dk ukedj.k mlesa fLFkr izeq[k rkjkeaMy ds uke ij fd;k x;k gSaA blh HkpØ esa gh 27 u{k= fo|eku gksrs gSaA dq.Myh fdlh le; fo'ks"k vkSj LFkku fo'ks"k ij cuk;k x;k vkdk'k dk og fp= gS] tks jkf'k pØ ds 12 fgLlksa dks iznf'kZr djrk gSA i`Foh ds viuh /kqjh ij if'pe ls iwoZ dh rjQ ?kweus ls ;g jkf'k pØ vkSj xzg u{k= iwoZ esa mfnr rFkk if'pe esa vLr gksrs izrhr gksrs gSaA lHkh 12 jkf'k;ka iwohZ f{kfrt ij mn; gksrs gq, 24 ?k.Vs vFkkZr ,d fnu esa ,d pØ iwjk dj ysrh gSaA fdlh tkrd ds tUe le; iwohZ f{kfrt ij tks jkf'k mn; gksrh gS] mls yXu vFkok dq.Myh dk izFke Hkko dgk tkrk gSA ;gh izR;sd dq.Myh dk izFke fcUnq gksrk gSA bls ru Hkko Hkh dgrs gSaA blls tkrd ds LokLF;] :i] jax] LoHkko bR;kfn dk irk pyrk gSA blh izdkj f}rh; Hkko dk lEcU/k dqVqEc] /ku] ok.kh ls gksrk gSA lqjfr ;k lEHkksx dk fopkj dy= vFkkZr lIre Hkko ls gksrk gSA iq:"k dh dq.Myh esa ;g Hkko iRuh dk vkSj L=h dh dq.Myh esa ifr dk izfrfuf/kRo djrk gSA v"Ve Hkko thou esa vkus okys fo/u~] ck/kk] vfu"V] e`R;q ,oa vk;q dk lwpd gSA uoe~ firk&HkkX; /keZ] n'ke~ deZ& lkekftd fLFkfr rFkk ,dkn'k Hkko ykHk dks iznf'kZr djrk gSA ckjgosa Hkko ls O;;] Hkze.k bR;kfn dk fopkj fd;k tkrk gSA

izFke] iape rFkk uoe~ Hkko f=dks.k dgykrs gSa rFkk ;s Hkko 'kqHk Qyizn ekus tkrs gSaA izFke] prqFkZ] lIre rFkk n'ke~ Hkko dsUæ Hkko dgykrs gSaA bu Hkkoksa ds Lokeh rFkk buesa fLFkr xzg lkekU;r;k vius LoHkko ds vuq:i Qy ugha nsrsA r`rh;] "k"B rFkk ,dkn'k Hkkoksa ds Lokeh izk;% v'kqHk Qynk;d gksrs gSaA ,dkn'k Hkko LokLF; dh n`f"V ls rks v'kqHk gksrk gS ijUrq vk; ds fy, v'kqHk ugha gksrkA f}rh; rFkk lIre~ LFkku ekjd LFkku ekus tkrs gSaA f}rh; rFkk ckjgosa Hkko ds Lokeh vius vU; LFkku ds vuq:i Qy nsrs gSaA izR;sd xzg dks] lw;Z rFkk pUæ dks NksM+ dj] nks&nks jkf'k;ksa dk LokfeRo izkIr gS] tks bl izdkj gS %

1- lw;Z & flag jkf'k

2- pUæ & ddZ jkf'k

3- eaxy & es"k ,oa o`f'pd

4- cq/k & feFkqu ,oa dU;k

5- c`gLifr & /kuq ,oa ehu

6- 'kqØ & o`"k ,oa rqyk

7- 'kfu & edj ,oa dqEHk

xzgksa dh Hkh eq[; rkSj ij nks Jsf.k;kaa gSaA ,d uSlfxZd ’kqHk xzg] ftuesa xq:] 'kqØ] cq/k rFkk pUæ gSa vkSj nwljh Js.kh esa lw;Z] eaxy] 'kfu] jkgq ,oa dsrq iki xzg vkrs gSaA lw;Z firk dk dkjd rFkk jktk gSA pUæ dks eu dk dkjd rFkk jkuh ekuk tkrk gSA eaxy lsukifr] cq/k ;qojkt] c`gLifr ifr dk dkjd rFkk 'kqØ L=h] oh;Z] eSFkqu fØ;k] fookg rFkk foykflrk bR;knh dk izfrfuf/kRo djrk gSA 'kfu uiaqldrk] /kheh xfr vFkkZr nsjh] 'kqæ tkfr rFkk vk;qdkjd gSA lw;Z rFkk 'kfu esa lEcU/k foPNsnrk dk xq.k Hkh fo|eku jgrk gSA jkgq ,oa dsrq 'kfu rFkk eaxy ds vuq:i Øe'k% dk;Z djrs gSaA

oSokfgd thou ds ckjs esa ge lIre Hkko] lIres'k rFkk ifr vkSj iRuh ds dkjd xzgksa dh fLFkfr dk v/;;u djrs gSaA fdlh Hkh iq:"k dh dq.Myh esa iRuh dk dkjd xzg 'kqØ rFkk L=h dh dq.Myh esa ifr dk dkjd o`gLifr gksrk gSA lIre~ Hkko] lIres'k] iRuh ,oa ifr ds dkjd xzgksa dh fLFkfr vxj uoka'k dq.Myh esa 'kqHk gks rks izk;% oSokfgd thou lq[ke; O;rhr gksrk gSA izR;sd xzg dks lIre n`f"V rFkk eaxy] c`gLifr rFkk 'kfu dks blds vfrfjDr Øe'k% prqFkZ] v"Ve rFkk iape] uoe~ ,oae~ r`rh; rFkk n'ke~ n`f"V izkIr gksrh gSA lIre Hkko ,oa lIres'k rFkk dkjd ij ikih xzgksa dh n`f"V oSokfgd thou esa dVqrk ykrh gSA lw;Z] 'kfu] jkgq ,oa }kns'k i`FkDdj.k izHkko j[krs gSaA lIre~ Hkko] lIres'k rFkk dkjd dk bu xzgksa ls ihfM+r gksuk vFkok buds izHkko esa gksuk fu'p; gh fpUrk dk fo"k; jgrk gSA blh rjg lIre Hkko@lIres'k@ lIredkjd bR;kfn dk jksx LFkku vFkkZr~ NBs Hkko ls lEcU/k rFkk v"Ve Hkko ls lEcU/k] ckjgosa Hkko ls lEcU/k Hkh nq%[k dk dkj.k curk gSA ;g lHkh lEcU/k yXu&dq.Myh] pUæ dq.Myh] uoka'k dq.Myh rFkk 'kqØ yXu ls ns[ks tk ldrs gSaA

oSokfgd thou dk fu.kZ; djrs le; loZizFke ;g ns[kk tkrk gS fd tkrd dk fookg gksxk Hkh ;k ughaA vxj gksxk rks dc gksxk vkSj dkSu lh fn'kk esa gksxk( mldh iRuh vFkok ifr dSlk gksxk] mudk oSokfgd thou dSlk jgsxk( dgha oS/kO; ;ksx rks ugha gSa( nksuksa esa ,slh fLFkfr esa dkSu lkFk NksM+ tk,xkA blh rjg dgha lEcU/k foPNsn (Divorce) rks ugha gksxkA nksuksa dk pfj= dSlk gksxkA bu lHkh ckrksa dk mÙkj T;ksfr"k 'kkL= ds ek/;e ls tkuk tk ldrk gSA

1- ftl O;fDr@tkrd dh dq.Myh esa lIre~ Hkko] lIres'k] mldk dkjd c`gLifr@'kqØ vxj tUe dq.Myh rFkk uoka'k dq.Myh esa ikih xzgksa dh fLFkfr] n`f"V vFkok ;qfr ds dkj.k ihfM+r gks rFkk f}rhes'k f=d LFkku 3, 6, 11 LFkkuksa esa gks rks fookg gksus dh lEHkkouk de gksrh gSA

2- yXu@yXus'k@lIre@lIres'k@

dkjd@'kqØ fucZy gksa vkSj mu ij fdlh Hkh 'kqHk xzg dh n`f"V bR;kfn u gks rFkk lIre Hkko ls 'kfu@jkgq@lw;Z bR;kfn iki xzgksa dk lEcU/k gks rks Hkh fookg dh lEHkkouk de jgrh gSA

3- pUæek ls lIre LFkku esa 'kqØ gks vkSj lIres'k ,dkn'k LFkku esa gks rks yxHkx 27 o"kZ dh vk;q esa fookg gksrk gSA

4- v"Ves'k v"Ve LFkku esa gks vFkkZr~ Loxzgh v"Ve esa gks] mlds lkFk yXus'k rFkk 'kqØ dh ;qfr gks rks Hkh fookg esa nsjh gksrh gSA

ftl tkrd dh dq.Myh esa lIres'k cyoku gks rFkk yXu f}rh;] lIre vFkok ,dkn'k LFkku esa gks rks fookg lkekU; vk;q esa gksrk gSA lIre~ LFkku esa fLFkr 'kqØ ij 'kqHk xzg vFkok lIres'k ds lIre esa fLFkr gksus ij rFkk ml ij c`gLifr dh n`f"V 'kh?kz fookg dk dkj.k curs gSaA

lIre Hkko esa vFkok lIres'k ds lkFk&lkFk pUæ ,oa 'kqØ ds lkFk&lkFk jgus ij ftrus vf/kd xzg cSBs gksaxs ml tkrd ds pfj= ij mlh ds vuq:i lUnsg fd;k tk ldrk gSaA vFkkZr mldk lEcU/k mlh vuq:i c<+rk tk,xkA

;fn lIres'k yXus'k ls cyh gks rks tkrd dk mRFkku fookg ds i'pkr vf/kd gksrk gSA lIre~ Hkko esa 'kqØ fdlh vU; xzg ls n`f"V vFkok ;qr u gks rks og tkrd izse esa <ksax jpus okyk rFkk fo"k;h gksrk gSA

lIres'k dh fn'kk ds vuq:i tkrd ds fookg dh fn'kk dk Kku fd;k tk ldrk gSA lIre@lIres'k@dkjd ls lw;Z] 'kfu] jkgq dk lEcU/k oSokfgd thou esa rykd djokus esa lgk;d fl) gksrk gSA

fookg ls iwoZ dq.Myh feykus dk pyu fgUnw T;ksfr"k esa vf/kd gskrk gSA bl feykid esa yM+ds&yM+dh ds dqN xq.k&nks"kksa dk feyku fd;k tkrk gS] ftlesa vkB xq.k nks"kksa dks dqy 36 vad fn, x, gSaA tUe le; ds pUæ ds u{k= ds vuq:i yM+ds rFkk yM+dh ds xq.kksa dk feyku fd;k tkrk gSA blds vUrxZr nksuksa ds o.kZ] o';] rkjk] ;ksfu] jkf'k] x.k] HkdwV rFkk ukM+h dk feyku fd;k tkrk gSA 36 vadksa esa vk/ks ls vf/kd vad gksus ij izk;% dq.Myh feyku fookg ds ;ksX; ekuk tkrk gSA blds vfrfjDr ekaxfyd nks"k ij Hkh fopkj djrs gSa % lkekU;rk eaxy rFkk vU; iki xzg ;fn yXu] prqFkZ] lIre] v"Vd rFkk }kn'k LFkku@Hkko esa gks rks og tkrd eaxyh ekuk tkrk gS vkSj eaxyh tkrd dk fookg eaxyh yM+dh ls djuk 'kqHk ekurs gSa] vU;Fkk vuFkZ dh dYiuk dh tkrh gS] tks esjs fopkj ls iw.kZr;k lR; ugha gS] D;ksafd vxj eaxy bruk gh vuFkZdkjh gksrk rks bldk uke eaxy u j[kdj veaxy j[kk tkrkA yXu esa eaxy gks rks tkrd ds LokLF; ij dqN nq"izHkko iM+rk gSA eaxy ds dkj.k og tkrd LokfHkekuh rFkk ftíh izo`fÙk dk gksrk gS] ftls lekt dHkh&dHkh Lohdkj djus dks rS;kj ugha gksrkA prqFkZ LFkku lq[k dk LFkku gSA ogka eaxy dh fLFkfr thou mi;ksxh oLrqvksa dh deh djrk gS rFkk lIre~ LFkku ij prqFkZ n`f"V ds dkj.k izfrdwy izHkko dh lEHkkouk jgrh gSA lIre~ LFkku ij eaxy iRuh ds LokLF; dh gkfu djrk gSA ;gha ls n'ke~ rFkk f}rh; LFkku ij n`f"V ds dkj.k deZ rFkk dqVqEc dh gkfu dh lEHkkouk jgrh gSA v"Ve~ esa eaxy fo/u~ ck/kk rFkk dHkh&dHkh nksuksa esa fdlh dh e`R;q dk dkj.k cu ldrk gSA O;; LFkku esa eaxy tkrd dh Øe 'kfDr dks izHkkfor djrk gSA vr% bl dkj.k eaxy dk Hk; vf/kd jgrk gSA ijUrq dsoy ,d xzg iwjs jkf'k pkVZ dks cny ugha ldrkA vxj bu Hkkoksa ij 'kqHk xzg dh n`f"V gks rks eaxy ml tkrd dk vf/kd fcxkM+ ugha dj ldrkA vr% eaxy nks"k ls bruk
vR;f/kd Hk;Hkhr ugha gksuk pkfg,A eaxyhd nks"k ds dqN ifjgkj bl izdkj gSa %

1- dq.Myh esa yXu] prqFkZ] lIre~] v"Ve~ rFkk }kn'k Hkkoksa esa] tgka eaxy xzg ds cSBus ls eaxyh ;ksx curk gSA ;fn ml Hkko dk Lokeh cyoku gksdj ml Hkko dks ns[krk gks rFkk lIres'k ,oa dkjd 'kqØ f=d LFkkuksa esa u gks rks eaxyh nks"k dk izHkko lekIr gks tkrk gSSA

2- eaxy 'kqØ dh jkf'k esa gks vkSj lIres'k cyoku gks dj 'kqHk LFkkuksa esa gks rks eaxyh nks"k ugha jgrkA

3- oj&dU;k nksuksa dh dq.Mfy;ksa esa eaxy nks"k gks rks eaxy nks"k lekIr gks tkrk gSA ijUrq vxj og ,d gh Hkko esa gks rks mldk dqQy tkrk jgrk gSA dbZ ckj blds foijhr Hkh ifj.kke ns[kus esa vk;k gSA

4- eaxy ij c`gLifr dh n`f"V gksA

es"k yXu esa fLFkr eaxy] o`f'pd jkf'k esa prqFkZ LFkku esa fLFkr eaxy] o`"k jkf'k esa lIre LFkku rFkk dqEHk jkf'k esa v"Ve rFkk /kuq jkf'k esa O;; LFkku ij eaxy gksus ij Hkh eaxyh nks"k ugha jgrkA

bu lcds vfrfjDr T;ksfr"k dk izHkko fookg&eqgwÙkZ ds fu/kkZj.k esa Hkh vf/kd jgrk gSA fookg le; fuf'pr djus ds fy, 21 egknks"kksa dks R;kxus dk egRo gSA ijUrq dbZ nks"kksa dk ifjgkj gksus ls n'k nks"kksa esa ls dwV ;qfr] cs/k] e`R;qck.k ØkfUrlkE; rFkk nX/kk ;s ikap egknks"k izk;% lHkh txg R;kT; gSA yrk] ikr] ;qfr] cs/k] tkfe=] ck.k] ,dkxZy] mixzg] Økafr lkE; vkSj nX/kk frfFk ;s n'k nks"k gSaA fookg eqgqZÙk esa oj&dU;k ds lEor~ lj tUe ekl] tUe frfFk] tUe u{k=] yXu ls rFkk tUejkf'k ls v"Ve~ yXu R;kT; ekus tkrs gSA yXu rFkk tUe jkf'k ds 'k=q jkf'k dk yXu uoka'k Hkh ugha ysuk pkfg,A blds vfrfjDr T;s"B oj&dU;k dk fookg T;s"B ekl esa ugha gksrkA tUe jkf'k ls 2, 5, 7, 9, 11, Hkkoksa esa fLFkr xq: fookg eqgwÙkZ esa fy;k tkrk gSA blh rjg lw;Z 3, 6, 10, 11, Hkkoksa esa ekU; gSA blh izdkj pUæ 1, 2, 3, 5, 7, 9, 10, 11, esa ekU; gSA lw;Z] xq: rFkk pUæ 6, 8, 12, LFkkuksa esa ugha gksus pkfg,aA fookg ds le; fLFkj yXu esa fd;k x;k dU;knku rFkk lIrinh oSokfgd thou dks fLFkjrk iznku djrk gSA bl le; fd;k x;k oSokfgd dk;Z lQyrk dh vksj vxzflr jgrk gSA pj yXu esa fd;k x;k fookg lEcU/k foPNsn dks c<+kok nsrk gS] vU;Fkk oSokfgd thou esa vucu jgrh gSA

T;ksfr"k 'kkL= ds mi;qZä fl}kUrksa dh lgk;rk ls oSokfgd thou dks lQy cuk;k tk ldrk gSA ijUrq ,slh ln~cqf) rHkh vk,xh vkSj ,sls la;ksx rHkh cusaxs tc fo?kkrk vuqdwy gks] D;ksafd ßlks tkugh tsfg nsgq tukbZ vkSj tkur rqEgha rqEgha gksbZ tkbZAÞ ijekRek dh yhyk dks ogha tku ldrk gS ftls bZ'oj tukuk pkgs] vFkkZr~ ftl ij izHkq dh Ñik gksA mldh bPNk ds foijhr dqN Hkh ugha gks ldrkA mldks tkuus ds i'pkr~ dqN 'ks"k jgrk gh ughaA T;ksfr"k 'kkL= esa Hkh lR;rk rHkh vk,xh tc vkidk b"V vkids vuqdwy gksxk vkSj mldh Ñik vki ij gksxhA

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